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5 healthy smoothies for diabetic patients

5 healthy smoothies for diabetic patients

In making smoothies for diabetic patients, we need to consider the fruits that are low in sugar, with enough veggies. Smoothie is better for a diabetic patient than juice because of the fibre content in smoothie Smoothie recipe 1 Pear & orange smoothie Ingredients: 2 […]



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Why some relationships fail after years

Why some relationships fail after years

Why some relationships fail after years

Have you ever wondered why some relationship fails after some years? The issue of failed relationships and why they fail is one that has been receiving lots of attention for a long time now. This is so because quite a number of new factors have emerged to threaten the peace and stability of relationships. There are several important factors that determine the stability of every relationship. When these factors are neglected, it becomes easy for things to go very wrong between couples. No relationship can stand the test of time without the right amounts of communication, trust, compromise, efforts, time, compatibility, loyalty, affection, and space. Lacking any or some of the aforementioned factors in any relationship is one easy way of driving the relationship towards the rocks. Here are some reasons some relationship fail after years just read on.

  • The person discovered new things

A person can discover new things about his partner over the years but refuse to give up on the marriage out of momentum only. If the person discovered that his new partner didn’t match his love map then repulsion or even hatred might happen.

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  • Loyalty

One major reason why relationships fail is lack of loyalty from ones partner. And loyalty requires a level of faithfulness in every relationship. Most relationships, at one point or the other get faced with cases of infidelity, but not all come out looking stronger. It is not possible for anyone to trust his or her unfaithful partner in a relationship. Most times when people get involved in infidelity in a relationship, it is as a result of problems like lack of loyalty that has existed for long. It is easy for your partner to find comfort in the arms of another man or woman when you fail to play your own part in mutual loyalty in your relationship.

Most people in such a case prefer to stay in the wrong relationship because of believing that they have done so much effort to arrive to this point. Some others remain in the relationship because they are too afraid to handle the pain of a breakup.

  • Communication

The role of communication in any relationship cannot be overemphasized. No relationship survives for long without the right level of healthy communication between the two people involved. For your relationship to maintain its stability for a long time, you have to hone your communication skills if you are not good at it. The best way to address any issue in your relationship is to come out open on any issue and talk it over with your partner. Engaging in heated arguments has never produced the right results when it comes to resolving issues. There are no specific laws for men or women to adhere to when it comes to adequate communication. The right approach is to find time and talk things over with your spouse before it develops into an irreconcilable difference.

  • Space and Distance

Everyone needs his or her own space, even when in a serious relationship. It takes two mature people to make a relationship work. It is important you know when your partner wants to be alone and respect his or her wishes. Give your partner some space and distance whenever he or she indicates a need to be alone. Trying to dominate every aspect of your partner’s life is not going to make your relationship work. If it does anything, stalking your partners every move will make him or her feel uneasy and caged in. Don’t try to run your partner’s life for him or her. Leave room for the development of self-confidence and independence. Giving your partner space and distance is something you should watch to make sure you don’t overdo it. Don’t be too close all the time and don’t be too far either. Pay attention to details to know when the distance is getting wider so you can talk things over and close the gap.

  • Trust

Distrust is one factor that has contributed to why relationships fail. It is important you learn to trust your partner. Even when you have any reasons to be suspicious, it is still advisable to talk things over. Factors such as lying to your partner can build distrust. Be open and sincere at all times to leave no room for unnecessary suspicions and jealousy. One mistake people make in their relationships which often lead to the collapse of the relationship is cheating on their partners because they believe he or she had been cheating on them. If you suspect anything, don’t act without getting your facts right.

Emotional Issues

Certain things happen in people’s life that mess up their emotions. Women are mostly affected by emotional changes following the action and reaction of certain female hormones that crop up as they grow older. Mood swings can cause a lot of damage in your relationship if you do not handle them well.

These above mentioned factors are some of the things that lead to a collapse of most relationships.

In all cases those people remain unsatisfied with their lives or years until one day they decide to end the pain (See questions to ask yourself before breaking up).


What to do regarding that matter?

If you want to have a good relationship that lasts then you have no option but to educate yourself on love psychology. Once you understand how attraction and repulsion works you will be able to take the right actions to keep your relationship going.

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How to Cure Stomach Ulcer Permanently Natural Remedies

How to Cure Stomach Ulcer Permanently Natural Remedies

Good Day everyone, hope you all have lovely day, below is effective solution on how to Cure Stomach Ulcer Permanently Natural Remedies. Try it and thank me later For those suffering from stomach ulcer, gastric ulcer and peptic ulcer, or you are searching for how to cure […]

Bitterleaf Soup Recipes: How to make finger licking Onugbu Soup

Bitterleaf Soup Recipes: How to make finger licking Onugbu Soup

Bitter Leaf Soup Recipe: A step by step guide on how to prepare bitter leaf Soup.   You usually eat this delectable soup in Nigeria restaurant and some occasions but you don’t really know how to prepare it? Just chill Hapimom is here to give […]

How To Make your P@nis Smell Good

How To Make your P@nis Smell Good

How To Make your P@nis Smell Good

As a man, keeping your p@nis healthy and sweet is important.
Your se*ual organs are very valuable and must be cared for. But before I proceed let’s me quickly explain some terminologies  used here:

Please don’t use slang

Words and Their Meaning:

The number of highly imaginative slang words that have been used to describe p@nis can leave patients embarrassed and doctors wondering. Keep it real and you’ll be taken seriously. Here’s a quick anatomically correct dictionary of our own for you to memorise and check off next time you’re in the mirror:

P@nis and foreskin – no explanation needed.

Shaft – the main length of your p@nis but not including the glans (tip).

Glans/tip – the highly sensitive area at the end of the p@nis, usually covered by a foreskin, unless removed in an operation called a circumcision, with an opening for urine and semen to escape.

Meatus – pronounced “me-ay-tuss”, this is the medical name for that opening.

Testes – otherwise known as testicles or balls. All are acceptable.

Scrotum – this is the stretchy skin that forms a sack for your testes. A thin muscle allows the scrotum to contract, which it does so in cold conditions to maintain your sperm at a constant temperature.

Epididymis – behind and above the testes lies the area that stores the sperm made in the testes. Above the testes is a firm tube that carries your sperm from the epididymis (via the prostate which lies near your bladder, so it goes a long way) eventually out through your urethra to come out in the hole in the tip of your p@nis (yep, the meatus – well remembered).

Knowing just a small detail of anatomy can really take the embarrassment out of a problem when explaining things. So next time you notice that something’s not right, be confident and just tell your doctor “straight up”.

1. A clean p@nis is very important, so wash your di.k with warm water at least twice a day. Clean the scrotum and under the  shaft gently and scrub your scrotal sack too.

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2. Leaving too much hair around it is not cool.
During se*,the hair can cause cuts on the virg. organs and condum.
Also, hair around the base of the it can be breeding ground for boils and cause bad odour so shave or keep it short and clean.

3. Don’t pamper it too much, As soon as you notice an infection, boil, rashes, please get help immediately.

4. Many guys wear one boxer for a whole week or even a month but for health reasons please change your boxers everyday.
Dirty boxer may give you permanent bad smell and a bad taste.

5. Guys what you eat affects the taste of your semen or penile juice.

Avoid too much garlic, onion, alcohol,coffee and spicy foods.
Eat fruits that are high in natural sugar like tiger nuts, dabino, oranges, apples, mangoes and please take honey too.
They all make your sperm taste good to feed the egg for a healthy baby.

6. A woman’s face may need makeup but not your p@nis.
Avoid using powder around the p@nis. If you do, especially after shaving, you might have to deal with serious irritations.
It doesn’t need perfume to smell good so don’t spray perfume around it.

*NB*: For those who are not circumcised, in your case, please pull back the the foreskin and wash underneath with warm water everyday.

Always remember, a clean p@nis is mightier than Goliath’s sword..

Finally guys, please go for a quick check up if you notice any changes within your scrotum, this could be a sign of prostrate cancer.
It’s common among men about and above 50 years of age.

Please this is educational material so don’t take offence prostate cancer is real and claims life…..

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Amazing Benefits of fresh Tomatoes to your body

Amazing Benefits of fresh Tomatoes to your body

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5 Easy Steps to make Tasty Zobo Drink with Dates

5 Easy Steps to make Tasty Zobo Drink with Dates

Zobo drink with dates is a popular Nigeria delicious drink, easy to make with low cost. Here is a guide on how to make zobo drink with dates or dabino as natural sweetener. Zobo is a drink that is made of dried hibiscus flowers. This […]

Challenges of Marriage, Why many marriages fail today.

Challenges of Marriage, Why many marriages fail today.

Have you ever wondered why many marriages fails these days?

Sometimes I ask myself why some women find it difficult to respect and honour their husband?

Sometimes I ask myself why some men find it difficult to love and value only their wife.

I keep asking myself why divorce rate is skyrocketing every minute and second of the day?

Do you agree with me that nobody enters into marriage with the intention of divorce?

Getting married is simple but staying married is difficult. The same person that says baby if I didn’t marry you no one else on this planet earth is the same person when challenges arises, that will say before I close my eye and open it, I don’t what to see you in my house again.

Now I came up with this observations many marriages fails today because

  1. Character: Many people got married today without knowing the real character of their partner. Do you know his do’s and dont’s, if yes do he know your do’s and dont’s as well? Is it accepted by both? Can you tolerate him in his annoyance or difficult situations? When you both know most of this tricks your home will be properly secured.
  2. Being Truthful: Some secrets are being hiding from the partner sometimes before the marriage then along the journey of marriage it will be revealed and it becomes a serious problem which sometimes can lead to divorce then it might be too difficult to solve. Try and be open to him if he  accepts you the way you are then both you enjoys the marriage together.
  3. Your Association; Before you get married try and find out the type of lifestyle your partner lives. Will your own lifestyle adapt to his own?  There is this adage that says show me your friend and I will show you whom you are. Mind the kind of friend you keep, the association (meeting/club) you join does your spouse really love that?
The Specific Needs of Every Woman

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